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Your relationship with your ex has come to an end and you want to make sure he understands exactly what he's missing. Perhaps you want to be with him again or just want to remind him what a great opportunity he missed. Think what kind of person he is, what kind of person you are, show him what he has lost! The best way to make a guy regret losing you is to focus your attention not on him, but on yourself. Stay away from him, make positive changes in your life and be open to new opportunities.

Steps

Set boundaries

Set your distance. He does not have to decide when you will speak again and if you will speak at all. Of course, you must respect his choice regarding the boundaries of what is permitted or any requests from him, but if he did not express his opinion on this matter, you can decide for yourself when and how you communicate (this applies to telephone conversations, SMS messages and emails ). It may be difficult at first, but it will get easier over time if you keep your distance.

• Your move to establish distance and the boundaries of your communication will show him that you no longer belong to him.
• Wait at least a month after breaking up before you start talking again.
• For example, if you used to send him a message to remind him of something (for example, about a doctor's appointment), you should not do this after a breakup. Let him rely on himself, not counting on you.
• Again, don't call to let them know that their favorite movie is on TV right now. Just grab some popcorn and enjoy the movie alone.

1. Change your life for the better. After parting, it's time to pay attention to yourself, to engage in self-development. You should do this not for your ex or anyone else, but for yourself. You deserve a change for the better. Maybe you always wanted to join some kind of community or take up your hobby? Right now! Perhaps you want to reconnect with someone you once lost contact with? Right now! Whatever you choose, give yourself a chance to change so you can be better tomorrow than you are today. Do it for yourself, not for someone else.

   • Your ex will see that you have changed and understand that you can move on and develop independently of him. Most likely, he will be happy for you and will regret that he is no longer a part of your life.

2. Understand your relationship. It is important that each of you have a clear understanding of whether there is still some kind of relationship between you or not. Are you still together or not? It's quite difficult to say these words, but you have to figure out among yourselves if you're dating or it's over. Remember that your relationship cannot be "turned on" or "off", and you should not hang around him forever to return to him as soon as he wants.

   • This suggests that you must control yourself and take care of your emotional state.
   • You can tell him: “Now that we have broken up, we need to decide what kind of relationship we will have, whether we will now somehow communicate or not. In this question, I need a clear answer, and I want to close this topic as soon as possible.

Be more confident

1. Go in for sports. Sports activities charge not only the body, but also the mind. If you've been to training before, don't quit. Let exercise become a habit. Your body will become stronger and more beautiful, and the mind will be cleared, thereby giving you positive emotions.

   • In many sports centers you can take a monthly subscription, so you can use all the services of the gym without entering into a long contract.

2. Be a more social person. Become more sociable and enjoy life. Take this opportunity to reconnect with old acquaintances and start doing something that brings you pleasure. In addition, now you have the opportunity to participate in various social events or at least look at them. Most likely, your ex will soon find out about your active social life or even see your photos on social networks and understand that you can live your life without him.

   • Meet your friends
   • Go somewhere for lunch
   • Go to the theater
   • Go to festivals (make yourself a day of festivals)
   • Join the meeting of users from social networks
   • Join a hobby club
   • Don't take too many detailed photos of where you go and what you do, otherwise you might get the impression that you are not doing this for yourself, but because of the breakup with your ex.

3. Start thinking positively. They say we attract what we think about. If our head is visited by positive thoughts, we will attract positive energy into our lives. In addition, by starting to think positively, you will learn to drive away all negative thoughts, self-doubt, all those traits that pop up when we do not expect at all. Positive thinking is a habit that takes time and effort to develop, but trust me, it's worth it!

   • Start small. Think about how many negative thoughts you could turn into positive ones. So the next time you have a negative thought, try to chase it away and replace it with a positive thought.
   • For example, for sure, you could have thought that you are not as talented as others, so you can never succeed. Try to resist this negative thought. After all, you are simply expressing your fear and anxiety, and not a real fact. Do not let fear and fears get the better of you, correct these thoughts! For example, you might say to yourself, “Everyone has their own talent. I just need to find my own business." Or, “There are many ways to succeed in life. I have already succeeded in many ways. I will find a way to make every day of my life successful, I will continue to look for ways to improve my skills.

4. Focus on your strengths. You have your strengths and you should focus on them. Focus on what will help you succeed or inspire you to succeed. Your success depends on you, no one can take it away! You build your future thanks to your skills, the more attention you pay to them, the stronger you become in this or that business. Your further efforts will open up new opportunities for your personal growth and development.

   Know yourself. Most likely, after parting, you will catch yourself thinking: “How to live on?”. You are so used to communicating with this person and spending time with him that you may have lost the habit of being alone with yourself. To move forward, it is important to know yourself better, to decide what you like and dislike, how you feel about religious and political issues. As soon as you start to develop and move on, he will understand what he has lost.

   • Start simple and try to make a list. A list of what brings you pleasure, where would you like to go, what is your ideal vacation, what are your hobbies and interests. Make as many lists as you want. Usually, putting your thoughts, desires, and hobbies on paper helps you get to know yourself much better.
   • You can meditate (formally or just like that), just close your eyes, master the technique of proper breathing, sit in silence for a while. Calm down and relax, organize your thoughts to be alone with yourself, without distractions.

Enjoy

1. Make new friends. If you have lost touch with your friends and buddies after a breakup, now is the time to make new friends! Of course, this does not mean that you should forget about old friends, but you definitely should expand your social circle. New acquaintances and friends will open up new opportunities and impressions for you, help you to be at a distance from your ex. If you and your ex don't have friends in common, you won't have to constantly bump into each other, so you'll have your own space and the opportunity to start over.

   • In this digital age, there are many opportunities to meet and meet new people. You can join some groups on social networks or simply respond to some ad on the site. These can be communities of interest (for example, books, movies, music), geographic locations (city, neighborhood), communities for sharing experiences (for example, communities for parents, divorcees, retirees), and so on.
   • Perhaps there are also groups in coffee shops or bookstores in your city who meet regularly and have various discussions and activities.
   • If you go to school, chances are your school or college has social, sports, and science clubs that you could join.

2. Pamper yourself. You deserve to treat yourself to something that you would normally deny yourself. Give yourself some attention, start learning something, ask yourself out on a date, or buy that handbag you've been looking at for months! Think about what brings you pleasure and give yourself a gift.

   • Try going on a road trip or even traveling alone. Take time to learn about a new place and learn something, get new experiences.
   • Make yourself happy by taking the time to take care of yourself. Perhaps now is the time to buy that massage roller or those new pans and pots that you have been eyeing for a long time?
   • Take a walk. Go to a bookstore, have dinner somewhere in a cafe, or go to the movies.

3. Be kind to yourself. You know that it is very important to treat others well. Your good attitude will help the other person, and you yourself will feel better. But don't forget to treat yourself well, especially now. You usually take care of others, but now is the time to take care of yourself. Believe me, your ex will regret that he missed a piece of your kindness.

   • For example, grab a coffee on your way to work.
   • Spend the money on new clothes, a new game, or some sports equipment.
   • Praise yourself more often. Every day look for something in yourself to be proud of.
   • Be patient with yourself.

4. Have fun! If you want your ex to regret losing you, you must focus on becoming happier. It's time to get out of the house and go have fun! Don't think about whether he's sorry or not. You cannot control his feelings. But you can have fun - meeting friends, playing golf, swimming, hiking - just start doing at least something to entertain yourself.

5. Try to develop new habits. It's not the same as changing your lifestyle. Developing new habits means developing new behaviors that will someday become part of your behavior. The new habits you develop should bring some positive changes into your life or make you a little happier. After all, a happy joyful state is not only good for you, but also makes you more attractive.

   • You can develop the habit of learning something new, for example, you can learn 2 new foreign words every morning or spend 20 minutes reading the news.
   • These may be habits of a different nature: for example, you can do two minutes of sit-ups and push-ups every morning.
   • These can be spiritual habits, such as reading religious books every evening for 30 minutes.

In fact, you don't need it. You just need a suitable topic to start a conversation. The opening phrase is like underwear: you're still in your pants. Well, if under them good underwear. But no one will notice when you have great jeans on.

And all the same, the guys puzzle over the introductory phrase and wind themselves up because they can’t find it.

2. "OK, now what?"

Some people get so excited when they come up with an introductory phrase that they forget that after that they will have to say something else, and after a successful or not very good start, they fall silent for a whole minute. The girl won't wait that long.

3. "I don't know if she really likes me, or is she just trying to be polite?"

Maybe the girl is just too shy or doesn't want to flirt in a way that is too obvious, or maybe she's just naturally reserved? What's happening?

4. “It just dawned on me that I have no idea how to finish the bike that I’m bullying her now.”

It's a terrible feeling. A bad story can completely ruin even the best attempt at dating. Some advise in such cases to say: “And then I got drunk to hell and then I don’t remember anything.”

5. “She nods and smiles, smiles and nods…

Is she just waiting for me to finally shut up and leave her alone?”

6. “She doesn’t nod or smile…

She doesn't even try to pretend she's interested in me."

7. "Where can I put my hands and what to do with them?"

Let's say you have a mug of beer or a glass of wine in one hand. But as soon as you start to roll up to the girl, you become painfully awkward and it is not clear where to put your free hand. Isn't it too indecent to put it in your pocket? Not too foppish, tucking your thumb into the belt loop of your jeans? Lean against a wall? Lean on the bar?

8. "I'm too drunk for this."

Sometimes you have moments of enlightenment, and you realize in time that you have already gone over, and nothing good will come of it, unless she is in the same state, or even worse. If you are in the equivalent stage of intoxication, you can find one you understand a common language.

9. "I'm almost done, but I don't want to leave her for another drink."

And here you are pulling everything to the last sip, hoping that she will not notice that you are twirling an almost empty glass in your hands.

10. “I need to go to the toilet… but what if she leaves while I go there?”

This is real fear. Depending on the size of the party, you may never see each other again. Not to ask the girl you like to wait under the toilet door?

11. "Damn it, her friend came over."

This is a major turn of events because it could mean one of several things. Either she came to approve the choice of her girlfriend, or to save her from an annoying boyfriend (i.e. you). Will you pass the test?

12. “Great, now I have to weigh how much time I spend talking with her friend, and how much time with her.”

You don't want to offend a girl by focusing on her friend, but you also can't ignore her friend so you don't seem like a boor. It's like you're juggling two balls.

13. “NO, DON'T LEAVE! NOT NOW!"

There is nothing worse than when the party ends or the bar closes just at the moment when you start to think that everything is on the ointment. And of course, she lives in Chertanovo, where her friend's boyfriend will give her a lift, and you don't even have the opportunity to see her off.

14. “Oh shit. I didn't have time to pick up the phone. I'll have to look for her on social networks, like a spy, and hope that she remembers me.

We hope, friend, that you are lucky, and she will have her on the avatar, and not Princess Leia.

In general, something like this. She knows he loves. He does not know and therefore does not love. And in order to know and love, you need to get to know him. Actually there is no problem. Rather, problems appear because our short-sighted girls in love begin to dedicate their friends to their feelings. And they start asking for their help. As a result, girlfriends will certainly confuse something. Or they will rattle all over the district about the secret handed over to them. Or they themselves will lay eyes on the object of attraction and all that they asked, they will say, but from themselves. Because if one needs it, then everyone needs it right away! In short, there will be a lot of intrigue, gossip, quarrels - and no result. But how then to get acquainted with the chosen one, if not through someone? Yes, very easy! Directly. We offer one of the options for an active dating scenario ...

Active, because the lady does not wait for the gentleman deigns to become interested in her, but gets acquainted herself. By creating external prerequisites for this. I had several cases where the problem before that seemingly impossible acquaintance was exhausted in a matter of days.

Imagine a handsome young man in all respects walking out of the store, holding a bag of bread and kefir in his hand. He goes home because he lives in a nine-story building next to the store. He constantly goes to this store, which greatly facilitates the task of an ambush.

"Ambush" is a pretty girl standing around the corner, who could not get acquainted with a young man with yogurt rapidly approaching the corner. A little further away stands an "observer" who sees both the girl and the boy at the same time. His task is to signal an attack.

The young man with kefir gets to the url, the observer gives the go-ahead, the girl who wants to get to know him quickly runs out from behind the shelter and very prudently swoops down on him with her whole body. Due to the fact that the weight of the girl is less than the obstacle encountered on her way, she flies off to the side and falls on the asphalt. In the fall, having time to tear his tights.

What does a young man with kefir observe in front of him? He watches the girl who hit him and fell, tearing her pantyhose. That is, he is the direct culprit of the misfortune that happened to her. And what does that young man do? Offers to go to his house. I live nearby. I'll give you a needle...

And that's it! Well, what else do you need? You can say, from the street - and immediately home. Without any intermediate discos and parties there. And even more so without girlfriends. Direct move to the object of interest.

If you know where your chosen one lives, studies, or visits, then you can think of a hundred ways to get to know him. You just need to show a little imagination. Exactly the same scenarios are successfully written and played out by foreign intelligence agencies who want to bring their agent to our resident.

For example, a resident is driving on his own business, and suddenly a car drives into his side from a side street with its front bumper. From which a pretty woman, specially selected according to the tastes of the resident, jumps out.

“Ah,” she says, “I am very sorry that this happened.

But in this case we are talking about some secret ciphers or missile launch pads. Just! In your case, about much more - about fate!

So why can they, the scouts, but we can't? We just don't know how? Then we'll show you a few more ways. For example, traumatic When you suddenly twist your leg near your chosen one and fall to the ground like a sack. Well, really, he won’t react in any way, won’t pick you up and carry you in his arms to the emergency room or, at your request, to your house? Where, quite understandably, a sumptuous dinner awaits him.

Won't deliver? Quit? Then, it means that he does not deserve your attention and you are lucky that you figured out his character in time.

In addition to dislocations and open fractures, you can faint. For example, in stuffy transport. You know - "Ah!" — and right on his knees. By the way, in case of loss of consciousness, in addition to carrying on hands, artificial respiration is also provided. Mouth to mouth. Of course, such swoons need to be rehearsed very well so that they look natural.

And also, to attract the attention of your lover, you can drop something near him. Books, cosmetic bags, wallets, fur coats, crystal chandeliers. And at the same time bend over them. If you want to increase the duration of contact, then you need to pour out the contents from the fallen thing. From the wallet - money. From a cosmetic bag - perfumery. From the bag - potatoes. The more individual items and the larger the scatter area, the longer you will "communicate". The exception is money, which the more there are, the faster they are collected.

The same things can be forgotten. In transport, at the cinema, at a concert, on the train. The main thing is to be near the future groom. The left thing must have your address or phone number so that he can find you. The thing must be of little value so that he does not have the temptation to appropriate it. For example, if you leave a bar of gold wrapped in a newspaper or a suitcase of dollars, the groom, I'm afraid, will not look for you.

If he is not found for several days, begin to advertise where and under what circumstances you lost your dear thing and what reward was put for its return.

Less outwardly spectacular, but no less effective ways of dating are to “accidentally” be near the courted man at some event. For example, in neighboring places in the stadium. And the whole match Constantly asking: “Why is that ball throwing? Does he whistle?”, giving the neighbor an opportunity to demonstrate his knowledge of sports. It is also allowed in the most threatening minutes of the match to show one's emotionality, burying one's face in the neighbor's shoulder when there is a threat of a goal against our goal and kissing and hugging him during assists - to strangers.

It is convenient to meet at a party. But for this it is necessary to establish through acquaintances and acquaintances those acquaintances where he is going to come in the near future. And come there, asking the owners of the house to put you next to him.

The ideal method of dating is to “get sick” with the same hobbies. Find out what your chosen one is interested in - tennis, scuba diving, numismatics or anything else. Having learned, feel free to purchase rackets, ancient coins, scuba gear, thoroughbred dogs... Then you will have a reasonable reason to bring your male for mating with his, sorry, female. From such a meeting, I think, he will not refuse.

And you can also become a regular customer of the store or company where he works. Or a client of a workshop where he fixes broken household appliances. You can vote in person in front of his car. Take a place in the queues in front of him or after him. And from nothing to do get acquainted.

Train your imagination. And come up with your dating scenarios. After all, you can’t stock up on ready-made recipes for all occasions ...

If you want to meet a man, you must either be "available" or take the initiative. The former is much easier. In fact, "availability" is the main strategy when meeting men. In everyday life, you are surrounded by many men, and you are not even some of them may look at you with admiration, but are afraid to talk to you, because you seem inaccessible to them.

Some women meet men easily, others do not. Some women go to parties, to clubs, do social work and do not meet men. For others, not a single trip to the store is complete without men throwing loving glances at them or talking to them. The difference is that one woman is available and the other is not.

Men are not very brave when they have to approach a woman they really like. A man will much more easily approach a woman whom he considers not very attractive than one with whom he is fascinated. He will lose less if the first rejects him. That's why these simpletons are married, and someone as wonderful as you is a lonely dreamer.

Men may be brave on the battlefield and ambitious at work, but they fear female rejection. Yes, they may avoid you for fear of rejection. A man's idea of ​​himself, including his manhood, is formed soon after he reaches puberty, and this idea rarely changes. Even twenty years later, after a successful career, this self-esteem remains unchanged, and for most men it is greatly underestimated when they have to meet women. A man who seems to you a tall and handsome stranger, at heart is only a trembling fourteen-year-old teenager, preoccupied with the defects of his face, breaking voice and your refusal.

What does this young man do to avoid rejection? He approaches only those girls who look friendly and willingly meet his eyes. When it comes to meeting women, men behave the same as in their youth. They approach women who they don't think will reject them.

Consider that every man is worth a friendly word. This attitude will minimize men's fear of rejection. A simple "hello" said with a smile and cordiality to any man will give you a reputation as a sociable person. It will be easier for men to get to know you.

Do this with every man in your life. You will get into the habit of bringing men the joy of meeting you, you will feel more confident in a male company.

As a result, attractive men will talk to you, including those whom you considered inaccessible or who did not exist for you at all.

You may be afraid that the reputation of a sociable person, accessibility will attract many men, but not the one you need. Do not worry. Your ideal considers himself superior to other men. For this reason, he will not approach you if he is not sure of a favorable reception. In the end, he is afraid that if you reject him, then people will find out about it, and this will turn into a public humiliation for him. However, if your chosen one sees that you are kind to all men, he will rush into battle.

It often happens that a girl likes a guy whom she sees often or for the first time - it does not matter. She hesitates to approach him herself, preferring to wait for the man to pay attention to her. But that doesn't happen. How to solve a problem? How to push a young man to get acquainted? This will be discussed in this article.

General training

Before sharing proven methods, let us recall that the very appearance of a woman, so that a man comes up to meet, should attract, not repel. Guys are so arranged that beautiful girls catch their eyes. Even if a young man is married, is faithful to his wife, he will look at a pretty person. This is not treason. To admire beauty is an inalienable right of everyone. And to attract the eye is already a big step towards victory.

So, to provoke a guy, you have to look good.

Unfortunately, nature has not endowed all women with dazzling beauty, but ladies are ladies for that, in order to create their own image on their own, emphasizing their advantages and hiding their flaws far away.

Things to take care of:

1. Hairstyle. Sometimes there are tendencies: to be disheveled, not to care for your hair. But you should not be guided by them. Hair should always be perfect, like nails, hands and everything else.
2. Makeup. You should not prepare for an acquaintance by applying a thick layer of foundation on your face. Cosmetics should be light, emphasize natural beauty. Of course, if there are skin problems, you will have to work hard. But even in this case, everything should not look “hard”.
3. Cloth. As a rule, women are well versed in "clothes". Just in case, let's pay attention that clothes should attract, and at the same time not be vulgar. If these are tights, then they are normal, maybe even with a pattern, but not in a large mesh, like prostitutes.

On the other hand, it's a matter of taste. One man will look out to get acquainted only with a "high society girl", another - a woman who prefers a sporty style, a third will like a brunette with bright lips and boldly painted eyebrows. But it is better to stick to the "golden mean".

A separate conversation is a facial expression.

"Danger! Keep out!"

If you wish, you can go outside and see what faces people walk with. At best, with the indifferent, most with the gloomy. A girl who wants to get a guy to take the initiative needs to learn how to smile. Men will not approach someone who looks like the "Snow Queen". Although there are exceptions here.

The main non-verbal message that can encourage communication is a flirtatious look and a positive smile.

To learn how to make the “right” face, you need to practice. There are three exercises for this:

1. Looking for a large mirror at home, look into it and start smiling. Don't laugh or make faces. Just smile. It is necessary to force the muscles of your face to contract in such a way that in the reflection you see a sweet, benevolent girl who is suitable to get acquainted with without fear of anyone. There should be no languor and excessive sexuality in facial expressions. Just a coquettish, slightly modest smile. You need to try to make it natural, not stretched. Now imagine: a young man is walking down the street, looks at the girl and sees that her gaze is directed at him, and she is also smiling. There are few people who can resist and do not dare to get acquainted. And all because the guy sees: there is contact.
2. The ability to smile must be fixed at a subconscious level. We move away from the mirror, get comfortable and close our eyes. In the imagination, we imagine how a smile appears, what it will be like in its prime. In this case, you need to feel how the muscles of the face act at this time. The exercise helps to convey to the brain the information that you want to smile like that all the time.
3. Capture your most positive facial expression on your phone or camera camera to calmly analyze. If you like everything, there are no flaws or shortcomings, you can go in search of someone who will be active when they see you.

Speaking of non-verbal signals, we can think of stroking yourself. But not frank, but, as it were, reflexive. What needs to be ironed? First of all, the neck. The rest of the body is optional. For a man, this will be a signal on a subconscious level. He may not even understand what exactly caused the desire to approach and get to know each other, but he will find time to talk. At least to exchange a few words, ask something, etc.

other methods

A girl without a twinge of conscience can ask a young man to provide her with some help:

• show the correct performance of the exercise in the gym;
• help in the subject at school or institute;
• pick up men's clothes supposedly as a gift to dad or brother;
• insure on the rink if the lady does not feel very confident on skates;
• set up the Internet;
• check the oil level in the car.

In general, there are many examples. Above we are talking about the fact that a woman herself must find some competent man and approach him. But this article is a little different. But it doesn't matter. You can not ask the guy for help, but simply behave in such a way as to achieve attention from the man.

For example, before going to the gym, you can buy a bottle of water, then sit close to an interesting young man so that he can see you, and “try to open” the container. If a man has an interest, or he is simply well-educated, he will take a step forward - he will come up and help by starting communication. Probably, later he will take the phone and write it down in his, not forgetting to indicate the name.

Among other things, the guy will pass the gallantry test and be perceived as a good potential husband.

In this case, you do not ask to do anything, but defiantly show that you cannot cope on your own. That's all.

There are also radical ways. For example, without words, approach a guy and kiss him. We do not undertake to predict the exact reaction of a young man. Perhaps some of the men will like this option. Of course, it will be important which girl decides on such an approach.

Warnings

In a topic like this one, one cannot do without some warnings related to the peculiarities of the behavior of modern men:

1. It's not news that young people don't take hints well. Of course, when a lady "shoots her eyes" - this is a definite signal that she wants to get acquainted. And if a woman asks to carry a heavy bag, many men will perceive it as if the girl is really physically difficult, and she wants to exploit the representative of the stronger sex.
2. Many guys now just do not know how to get acquainted themselves. It's one thing if a boy found a girl on the Internet. Then he will write her a letter and send a smiley. It's hard for men to just talk in real life. Someone is afraid, someone is no longer considering this option of dating. This will have to be dealt with. Or you can start dating guys yourself, ignoring the stereotype that a girl shouldn't do that. One guy drew this analogy: “If there is delicious juice on the shelf in the store, you need to go up and take it. And do not wait until the drink gets into your basket. Maybe the comparison is not very correct. But why not?
3. You can only provoke the young man who liked you to approach. Therefore, we do not forget what was discussed at the beginning of the article, and we monitor our appearance.

And do not despair if some of the fair sex did not pay attention to the signals you are giving. One didn’t “fall for it”, the other will definitely fit.

Today I will touch on the topic, probably the most popular among women, how to behave so that a man notices you and do men have a standard of beauty? And let's talk about how to make a man want to meet you.

What kind of woman do men want to see next to them.

Men really need women from the point of view that they take life very seriously and miss a lot of things because for them everything that happens around, except for the goal that they set themselves, does not exist and is generally some kind of oversight and unnecessary detail.

What for women is life itself - details, little things, simple joys and emotions that they experience, for men this is some kind of misunderstanding that prevents them from achieving the goal they are going towards.

Each of the men would like to have a woman next to her, not a standard of beauty, but with whom he will begin to notice simple joys. How beautiful the forest in which we walk, what a beautiful sky, etc. Women know how to just enjoy life. And every man wants to meet a happy woman. The one that he himself can make happy and the one that is already happy enough without him. A strong man will fight for the right to get such a woman, and an infantile man is afraid of such women.

What standard of beauty women want to see men next to them.

If a woman finds herself at some event where there are men and she breathes inspiration and happiness, then it is only a matter of time when the vacant place in her life ceases to be such.
The task of a woman is to learn to be inspired and live inspired. The life of such a woman can be called full - there is a place for physical activity, creativity, etc. in it.
There are women who, due to circumstances, had to, as they themselves say, take the male role. But this is impossible, because a woman has a different nature and vocation. Women who try to play the male strategy of life become sharply unhappy.
Exactly the same as infantile men who are trying to move through life in a feminine rhythm. They won't find their happiness either.

Women, I advise you to fill up. And it's not about looks. Every man has his own standard of beauty. This is not a question of attractiveness, it is about the internal state of a woman. There are many beautiful women, but they are lonely.

In order for a man to still be a male earner, you ladies must be an inspiration!